A vital force is always essential to keep the things alive and relationships are the essential vital force to keep our emotions alive within us. It’s not a big deal to develop a relationship but to keep it throbbing and alive is a great achievement.
However, it’s a matter of concern only for those who really value the relations. Who are actually interested to improve relationships.
If you are one of those lucky people, here you can find the best ways to live and enjoy an organic relationship.
I’m going to discuss some core qualities you must possess for this purpose.
The very first and most important trait of your personality, that can save your relationship, is your loyalty to your partner.
Never try to cheat her or him.
Cheating acts like a poison that sometimes destroys at once and sometimes, it causes a gradual death of the relationship.
Loyalty doesn’t require the accountability of your minor and situational acts. It just means to keep the trust of your partner. Always try to yield your partners’ expectations. It’s a different issue that he or she is satisfied with your efforts or demands to do more.
But you must try at your best.
Truthfulness makes the relationship strong and lies, no matter how minor they are, weaken the relationship.
Your little lies can become a big question mark in your fidelity.
So avoid them to keep a great relationship.
The second thing that makes a relationship beautiful and strong, is your mutual understanding.
Understanding is actually the acceptance of each other’s mental approach.
It also involves tolerance towards the behavior of your spouse.
If you understand each other, you will definitely respect each other’s likings and dislikings.
And it will result in a sweet relationship.
Understanding prevents the little disputes over triflings.
For example, having less understanding of couples may argue over TV channels or colour choices. They can create a storm in the cup of tea. But it very few times happens between the couples who better understand and tolerate each other.
#3. Rejoice and Suffer together:
A living relationship always yields to face all the conditions of life together. A sincere partner shares your joys and sorrows wholeheartedly.
You must bear the hardships and struggles of your partner as happily as you enjoy with him or her in good times.
It gives energy and motivation to your spouse. You must have heard that every successful person is successful because of the support of his partner.
It really works.
If you support your partner in adversities, he will feel more strongly than ever. Your support can complete the emptiness of your spouse’s life.
And your noncooperation can break him or her inwardly.
Such a timely relationship can never be long-lasting.
So for the durability of your relationship, stay shoulder to shoulder with your partner under all circumstances.
#4. Humor and Romance:
The true taste of life is in the sweetness of your behavior with your partner. Be humorous and joyful. It adds beauty and charm in your life. Don’t try to be rigid and serious more than necessary.
It creates boredom.
A smiling and laughing partner decreases down the tensions of life. And similarly, a rigid face increases depression.
You must be a type of partner whose single look could make your spouse feeling relax and releasing tension. Your mood can work a miracle.
It can change the whole atmosphere.
So be smiling, romantic and full of energy.
#5. Be a big heart:
To keep your relationship alive, make your heart big enough to pardon the little mistakes of your partner.
You must ignore the silly things that could be a hindrance in the way of a happy life.
The greatness of a relationship lies in your little effort to develop a habit of forgiveness.
It makes life easy and smooth.
Aggression and instant reaction mostly end up in infidelity. Your forgiveness also makes your partner share his or her problems with you unhesitatingly.
It builds up confidence and strong bonding between you and your spouse.
To sum up, I am sure to say that if you succeed to develop these 5 qualities in your relationship, you will not get fed up of it till the last breath.
If you think some other traits should also be added to save your relationships, do share with me.